Archive for the ‘Business’ Category

Workplace Conflict and “It’s Not Fair”

Monday, July 26th, 2010
shrugging of the shoulders

shrugging of the shoulders

Have you ever complained about some ugly situation, one filled with workplace stress and tension and a colleague shrugs their shoulders and says “Life is not fair, so give it up!”

 

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Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010
Looking for Love

Looking for Love

Since I began doing leadership coaching with Jon Gosselin, I have become more sensitized to the role of “celebrity” in our culture. It creates both the addiction to being known and noticed all the time, and increases the dark side of depression and disappointment when the lights stop flashing.

 

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Leadership and Change: Ready on a Moment’s Notice

Friday, June 25th, 2010

 

I must really be getting old! I remember when tornadoes were only meant to happen in Kansas. In past years most of us watched “The Wizard of Oz” and went along with Dorothy on her journey, yet it was just a story, right?

 

While tornadoes indicate sudden change and danger they were “out there” in pockets of the country. They were meant to be in Kansas, not Connecticut. Well, not until this week anyway.

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Workplace Conflict Can Be a Good Thing

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

 

We are deeply into the second session of our 44th Total Leadership Connections program and I am still amazed when the dots between our backgrounds and work issues become clear.

 

In the present group is a young woman who grew up in a communist country and we had the privilege of hearing a first hand report of the tests and trials her family had to endure.

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Workplace Conflict, Men, Women, and the Family

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

 

Yesterday I talked about the tension at work where men are searching for ways to navigate that tough middle road between being a great employee or business owner and a father who is present for his children.

 

I saw this dilemma first hand at an off-site with a national sales group. Picture the scene: the team of 22 from a sales organization was at The Country Place Retreat Center to have some fun on our outdoors team challenge course and to take advantage of our new program called “Build and Give” where they would put some two wheeler bikes together that would then be donated to charity.

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Workplace Conflict and Father’s Day

Monday, June 21st, 2010

 

Hope all of you dads had a play day yesterday; and, even more importantly, that you were recognized and appreciated.

 

If you are an older dad, did you live in the “no guilt” zone? Or were there memories of missed little league games, missed school plays, missed opportunities to talk, really talk with the kids?

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Leadership Alert: We Have A Pattern Spill!!!

Friday, June 18th, 2010

 

In “Don’t Bring It to Work” I discuss the 13 behavior patterns that follow us from our original organization, the family into our work organization.

 

The BIG, I mean BIG question is “Why do we keep doing the same things over and over and over and over and over“?

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Leadership Challenges: I’m Sorry, I Messed Up!

Thursday, June 17th, 2010

 

I just saw a news bulletin that BP apologized for its mess. Certainly took long enough. Yet, there are so many who need to apologize, including Halliburton and other subcontractors.

 

In any case, apologies do help when they are made with the intention of setting things right. We will see how big oil does in the days to come.

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Leadership Conversations: To Tell the Truth

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

 

I just finished leading a tele-seminar with CTO’s from companies throughout the country.

 

The theme was about how to be the best, most self aware leaders so they could handle the people part of their job with ease and dignity.

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Weeds in the Brain

Monday, June 14th, 2010

 

What happens when you can’t think of anything new and innovative? What if your job depends on your creative energy? How do you shake yourself into the “never thought of it before” state?

 

You can hire someone. That’s always an option.

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