Archive for the ‘Diversity’ Category

Battling Women and Windmills

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

 

Mel Gibson

Mel Gibson

In our Total Leadership Connections program we teach participants to go beyond the obvious, that leadership in any field requires deep thought; superficial considerations are merely not enough.

 

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To Know You is to Love You

Monday, June 28th, 2010

 

Hey, take a minute and look in the mirror. Not to judge, just to look. Now, what do you see?

 

Most of us will start with what is wrong. Sad but true. We live in a sort and judge, sort and judge world. We come from a fix and hide, fix and hide society. Think about teeth; how white is white enough? Why should teeth be super white anyway?

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Leadership and Change: Ready on a Moment’s Notice

Friday, June 25th, 2010

 

I must really be getting old! I remember when tornadoes were only meant to happen in Kansas. In past years most of us watched “The Wizard of Oz” and went along with Dorothy on her journey, yet it was just a story, right?

 

While tornadoes indicate sudden change and danger they were “out there” in pockets of the country. They were meant to be in Kansas, not Connecticut. Well, not until this week anyway.

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5 Things to Brighten Up the Work Week

Monday, May 10th, 2010

 

What if everyday at work was amazing, rewarding, conflict free, and wonderful?

 

If that were the case you would be living in a pretend paradise that, I can assure you, would get boring, boring, boring within a month.

 

Anyone remember the movie “Pleasantville“? It is a 50’s type family living in a 50’s type community where everything is so….well pleasant. The beginning of the film is in black and white and only changes (I don’t want to spoil it for you, it’s worth seeing) so just note at some point it changes, or the word I would use is it transforms to what is real!

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“HMD” to All Women and Men Who Have Birthed Anything

Friday, May 7th, 2010

 

A female executive I am coaching called me very early this morning and complained about how hard Sunday would be for her. My response was not super professional; all I said was “Huh?”

 

She then launched into a soliloquy about the fact that she had made a conscious decision not to have children and every Mother’s Day she had tons of people who would look at her with sad expressions and either ignore the whole idea that she was childless or make banal comments about overpopulation or the fact that many people have children who drive them crazy.

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Ya Never Know!!

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

 

I was sitting at my computer writing away when the rain started and the wind blew. It had been sunny only moments earlier. I kept writing, intent about getting the article finished before going to present at a local leadership seminar.

 

Then I heard a thud. I stopped to explore. The big wind was busy whirling and letting us all know it was in charge.

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Leadership and Sankofa Mapping

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Ever get annoyed with someone and say, usually with indignation “Who do you think you are?” There is a new television series by that name that gives the question a whole new meaning.

 

Real Leaders Practice Safe Stress ™

Friday, February 26th, 2010

 

Stress and anxiety have been at the boiling point for the last year, and depending where you live, the weather has been the proverbial icing on the cake.

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Leadership and Early Adapters

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

The following video has gone viral and is lots of fun to watch. It teaches some good lessons about the “first follower” as a leader. These early adapters are visionaries in their own right, and help make a movement happen.

 

In the video, we are talking about dancing at the beach: lots of fun and freedom and spontaneity. I would like to present a question and would love responses from all who are thinking about the ethics of followership.

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Valentines for Moms

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

 

An important part of what we teach in our Total Leadership Connections Program is that it is an illusion to think we can separate who we are at home from who we are at work. That split causes a multitude of emotional and even physical issues for lots of people.

 
Even more, we teach that what we do in our present work organization is most definitely based on what we learned in our original organization – the family.

 

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