Archive for the ‘Family’ Category

What are We Really Looking For?

Thursday, September 9th, 2010

 

I have been fascinated with the responses to my blog about Hailey Glassman. It has sparked so much emotion in many people that I think it is now time to respond.

 

Most reactions that are so polarizing there are only two forces to contend with: for and against. My question is “What are you for and what are you against?”

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Leadership, Living Dangerously, and Mel Gibson

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

 

Mel Gibson

Mel Gibson

Why is there so much razzle-dazzle blah, blah, blah about Mel Gibson? He is only one of a long line of individuals (female as well as male) who make nasty comments on the phone with lots of four to seven letter words that are bleeped out on the television.

 

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Bill Gates to Teachers

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

 

Bill Gates

Bill Gates

Whether you have children or not, the future of society truly depends upon how we educate the next generations. Check out what you think about Bill Gates ideas for helping teachers grow as professionals. He makes good points. And then look at my comments and let me know what you think.

 

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Sylvia, Jon, and Asking Questions

Friday, July 9th, 2010

 

I am fascinated by the fact that there are so many words being written on the web, and yet, there are so few real questions being asked. Yesterday I was fortunate to talk with a reporter from TodayShow.com and what a difference!

 

We had a dialogue! Now, that is not something busy people do anymore. Dialogue is not debate. Debate is when there is a winner and a loser. It was not just plain conversation. Conversation is more about how the hot weather is bothering, or not bothering you, how the folks are, with an answer of “Fine thanks”. It is not even discussion. Discussion gathers points of view and bundles them into groups.

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Lindsey Lohan: Patterns that Repeat

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

 

Why do we do the same things over and over and expect different results? Einstein called this the definition of insanity!

 

I was deeply saddened to see that Lindsey Lohan is going the route that leads to a dead end path. Better if she could be helped to get to the root of what is driving her. It will not happen in jail or in traditional rehab. Her father Michael went that route and, as he said on Larry King Live, it didn’t get to the root of his personal issues.

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Battling Women and Windmills

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

 

Mel Gibson

Mel Gibson

In our Total Leadership Connections program we teach participants to go beyond the obvious, that leadership in any field requires deep thought; superficial considerations are merely not enough.

 

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Pay Attention

Thursday, July 1st, 2010

 

This is a time to really, really look at the meaning of success, of relationship, and in honor of the Fourth of July, of freedom.

 

Please go to Examiner.com where I am a writer and check out the blog I did about Jon Gosselin who is in our Total leadership Connections program. Jon lives in Pa. and has been on the reality series “Jon and Kate Plus Eight” where we all had the opportunity to watch sextuplet and twin Gosselins grow and flourish.

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Leadership and Change: Ready on a Moment’s Notice

Friday, June 25th, 2010

 

I must really be getting old! I remember when tornadoes were only meant to happen in Kansas. In past years most of us watched “The Wizard of Oz” and went along with Dorothy on her journey, yet it was just a story, right?

 

While tornadoes indicate sudden change and danger they were “out there” in pockets of the country. They were meant to be in Kansas, not Connecticut. Well, not until this week anyway.

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Workplace Conflict Can Be a Good Thing

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

 

We are deeply into the second session of our 44th Total Leadership Connections program and I am still amazed when the dots between our backgrounds and work issues become clear.

 

In the present group is a young woman who grew up in a communist country and we had the privilege of hearing a first hand report of the tests and trials her family had to endure.

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Workplace Conflict, Men, Women, and the Family

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

 

Yesterday I talked about the tension at work where men are searching for ways to navigate that tough middle road between being a great employee or business owner and a father who is present for his children.

 

I saw this dilemma first hand at an off-site with a national sales group. Picture the scene: the team of 22 from a sales organization was at The Country Place Retreat Center to have some fun on our outdoors team challenge course and to take advantage of our new program called “Build and Give” where they would put some two wheeler bikes together that would then be donated to charity.

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